Let me please to share with you the recipes of my own happiness and luck.
Born in the Soviet Union into the ordinary family, I’ve experienced first-hand all the "charms" of the Soviet and after-Soviet life in the family and at school, College, so as at the job, all of which I didn't like absolutely actually:).
Since my childhood I realized that life, which, unfortunately, still live hundreds of millions of people all over the world, is not correct, and therefore it is not for me.
I've been worked and studied, read, developed, danced semi-professionally, began to travel.
And once I’ve decided to overcome the stereotypes of people's perceive of something new, unfamiliar, unknown, as considered like potentially dangerous, chose to take the risk and agreed to work as go-go dancer and hostess at a club in Europe.
How both my relatives and friends were trying to dissuade me!.. But I’ve decided to look for a luck in a new field, in a new place, in a foreign country.
And when I've found it, LUCK and HAPPINESS, two in one, met thanks to this trip my future husband, I realized how right was I, risking (as it seemed not only to me but to many people), and what exactly would I lost, if I wouldn't did what I did!
Now I'm living a quiet family life in Europe, enjoying the peace and quiet and orderliness of my beingness, communicating with my lovely neighbors Brits, Germans, Swedes, Greeks, etc. with their pleasant manners and real, not imaginary kindness; when I want I'm heading to the mountains and the waterfalls or swimming at the sea, or traveling and admiring the natural and historical beauties.
And I wouldn't had in my life something mentioned above if I would listened to the relatives, notorious friends (how they didn't like the changes of my life!) and wouldn't went beyond the standard scheme of thinking and life.
And the same, in fact, I offer each of you, basing on my own life experience.
For many years already I help all wishing people with a job getting at the night clubs in many countries. This is contracted and high-paid job with a guaranteed safety and support from my side for the entire duration of the contract.
But in fact, I offer you even more, namely - to change your destiny and find your own happiness. And I don't just offer this - I’m creating the conditions for you to get it!
Of course, each person's notions of happiness or at least its elements, are different.
But do you really think the girls aren't happy if they earned working at the clubs through me so much, what let them not only to feel at last freedom of life circumstances pressure, but to buy a brand new apartment for themselves or for their parents, to make there exactly designer renovation and decoration, to buy an expensive car including Porsche, to change cheap accessories on real Louis Vuitton, Cartier and Chopard?
And how can be considered as not lucky, for example, Ann which working through me has met her beloved American at the club on Saint Martin island, whom she married, gave birth to two babies and drives now her Bentley in Miami?
How is it possible to deny the right to be called as happy of Kate, Gulnaz, Inna, another one Ann all of which have found their husbands in Singapore, working there through me - respectively a Shipping Company owner from Australia, a banker from NZ, the Microsoft leading programmer from India, a successful lawyer from Singapore?
In short, dare, girls!
Get escape from the trap of stereotypes and habits!
As Great Guy de Maupassant advised, look for your luck! Believe with your luck, because only in this case you will find it!
Don't listen to your relatives, friends and especially the friends (these ones are envious you with black envy, because of you decided to change your life, but their spirit is not enough for the same)!
As French poet of the nineteenth century Joseph Roux noted, our lives are passing in the desires for something what we have no got, and regrets about what we won’t have got anymore.
So, aspire to what may seem in the perception of others as not standard, not accepted in your circle, and act so as not to regret the lost opportunities to change your life!
Think and decide yourself!
Make up your mind!
And you will find your own happiness, and not its substitute, which is issued by public opinion in your community as such an average little-happiness, the same as that of millions of others have got (which in fact are unhappy)!
Set your goals, which seem today are not reachable and you will succeed for sure!
But don’t delay and don’t doubt, because even in the Ancient Rome it was believed that the missed case rarely repeated!
And I will help you!